61 years ago …. Or was it just yesterday?  

It was Friday afternoon and the time was going slow and then, somehow, it was TIME.  Change of clothes..check.  Shoes..check.  (I made sure on that one twice, because back then I never wore shoes.  More than once I had headed out the door and had to go back to put my shoes on.)  Ring..check.  Then it hit me.  I was getting married.  MARRIED!  Me!  I took a deep breath and we headed to the church.

It was a very, very small wedding.  We did not want a larger wedding.  Just us and our immediate family.  We attended a rural church and, even though it was such a small number, the church ladies had cleaned till the wood shined.  

Dad and I waited until we heard the piano play the “song.”  Somewhere between the first note and the second, using the step-wait-step went right out the window.  We walked toward my future.  

Who gives this woman?  Do you take.  Do you promise?  Love, honor, cherish?    You may kiss.  And just like that I went from a Miss to a Mrs.  

That was yesterday … Or was it 61 years ago?

Time can be deceptive.  A breath can be long, as memories of a sick child come to mind.  A smile can hold for hours, as trips are discussed and roads taken turn into cowboys moving cattle, churches with stained glass windows, and the powerful Bison.  A tear can travel down the cheek, as the joy of holding a new baby enlarges a circle called family.

What has our life held?   Oh my.  There is not enough space to list that.  Let’s just say, our life has held blessings and trials.   

 What will it hold?   I do not know and I do not want to know.  BUT I know that whatever comes, we will get through the trials and cherish the blessings.

Yesterday … Or was it 61 years ago … I said, “I take YOU.”  I would say it again today.

Happy Anniversary Bill.  I love you